My experience using these sites over the years have been one of unbelievable aggravation. As men, we like what we see, but what about as gay men? We not only like what we see, we are picky, insensitive, and critical. In my personal opinion and experience, I have often times wanted to throw my desktop or laptop out the Goddamn window talking to these shady, stupid ass guys. I am so grateful for the block feature on these things; they work so well.
See, you have some men on those sites that are what we call "Thirsty." They will beg you to show pics, and just show pics, and/or meet them in hopes of having sex with them. Don't even let these guys smell up the dirtiest pair of your draws. Cause not only will they enjoy a good time, they will tell the world and their dog about the boring sex that they had with you to make themselves feel good about their pitiful life. Glad that I never look worse in person than in my pics. But these haters want to make you feel like shit.
This one I like to call a board member. Fellas, don't play hoe games on sites cause you talking shit to somebody's inbox. Just cause you're on a phone or through keyboard and you have your profile pic locked doesn't mean people don't know you. This gay world is small. That's what you call some hoe ass shit and you will be called on it. Cats like these are with a committee of muthafuckas that run in trashy, classless, boujie, and tawdry clicks of folks that dislike you for something simple as forgetting their name from a one-time encounter, or because you see their bullshit coming and you go the other way. I'm often guilty of that. Life will teach you how to spot game.
A. Do you practice safe sex?
B. Can I get in that ass or you want to get in my ass?
Fellas, a lot frustration can be canceled by being straight-up and real. I'm just saying.
|KENOKI BLACKDOG HARVEY|
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